Aren’t you so tired of just jumping from one relationship to the next? It has got to be so exhausting having to bear disappointment after disappointment. You start to get really intimate with someone only to have that intimacy die down over time.
You get your hopes up with every relationship and then you just end up feeling so unfulfilled and saddened. That’s the risk you run when you fall in love. You have your expectations going into a relationship, and when your expectations aren’t being met, you find yourself feeling disgruntled. And if it happens often enough, you might not want to have anything to do with love anymore.
But you shouldn’t lose hope. You have to remember that it’s only a problem if you don’t have a solution. And when it comes to love, there is always a solution. Sure, some relationships just aren’t meant to be. You can’t force love to appear in places that it’s just not supposed to be in. But you can always put yourself in the best possible position to succeed in your relationships. And that all starts with practicing good habits.
You have to be humble enough to acknowledge that you aren’t a perfect human being. You have your flaws and your shortcomings. You have your imperfections and your blemishes. You are only human after all. And so it’s highly likely that you have had a hand in all of your romantic misfortune. Remember that out of all your failed relationships, you are the common denominator.