You would think that if you love someone, the two of you would automatically be in a healthy and happy relationship together, right? But life doesn’t exactly work that way. The universe might not necessarily have the same plans that you have for yourself. Just because you want something doesn’t automatically mean that you’re going to get it. And just because something seems like it’s a good idea doesn’t exactly mean that it’s going to manifest itself in reality.
You can have the grandest and most amazing expectations in the world; but if it’s not in the cards for you, it’s just never going to work out. And that’s the truth that you’re just going to have to learn to accept early on in this life. Just because you have the perfect idea of love for a person doesn’t mean that that love is going to translate to a successful relationship. Because this is the harsh reality of it all: love alone is never going to be enough to sustain a long and healthy relationship. That’s why there are so many people who are in love but are not together.
There are so many things that go into trying to make a relationship work. Yes, it all starts out with a basic mutual attraction between two people. And with that attraction, a bond is going to be formed. And that bond will continue to build itself until two people fall in love with one another. And that love is going to serve as the solid foundation on which two people should be building their relationships. However, love isn’t always going to be enough. There are just so many factors that need to be taken into consideration. There are a lot of times wherein people can fall in love with one another and just have their timing be off.
There are other times wherein people fall in love with each other and end up just losing that love because they were complacent and they didn’t put enough effort in. And there are other times wherein people are just plain incompatible even though they love each other so much. And that incompatibility can be a problem because it can generate too much friction on a relationship that can overpower even the purest of loves. Or maybe there are some people out there who are in love with each other but are already in committed relationships with other people, and they don’t want to break those commitments.