Most of the times, what couples overlook in their relationship that is not going so well is the fact that they need to draw a line between determination and desperation. You need to accept the fact that not everything is under your control – especially the way people feel and where they choose to put their care and time. Sometimes people show off their relationships. They do act like their are the happiest person in this world. If they did, they were lying.
Sometimes their are some situation where they act like they are the best. But in every relation there are some problems. This problems are huge. Your partner will lost his interest in this relationship. There is absolutely no use losing yourself in the process of loving another; you may never regain yourself. It’s the same to them when you tell them how happy they make you and when you tell them they don’t.
Below are 5 signs yours is a situation, not a relationship, and that it’s going nowhere. Here they are :
1. They put the blame on you every time
Even their is no fault of yours , they’ll blame you like you did everything wrong. And that’s the most disgusting thing ever.If they truly cared about you or your relationship, they would take the blame and not the other way around. If they truly love you they’ll care about you and your happiness.
You two have a fight. One leaves. The other sits there wondering the why and how of it all. They’ll fight but at the end of the day they can’t live without anyone. If they really cared about the relationship, wouldn’t they come and sit with you and talk things out? The matter speaks for itself. They’ll talk about the matter.